For The First Time…
I wrote this on Twitter the other night & I’ve been thinking about it a lot, so I’m sharing it here too…
“Women would leave their significant others far less if they had even a sliver of an understanding of what it is like to live as a man in this world.
Being a man is such a thankless & harrowing experience.
In fact, it may as well be unpaid prostitution.
Because most people use men while seeing them only as their agency, then give them nothing in return.
They rarely have people around them that support them & rejuvenate them.
Their experience is largely just being used & discarded.
Being a man is like straight slavery your whole life.
That’s a sad thing to think about… but men make the sacrifice to suffer for those they love…
What’s crazy is that most women won’t even put aside their feelings for the men they claim to love & respect.
They prioritize their happiness & give up on them. Well if they understood the weight of the value, sacrifices & suffering of the men they claim to love & respect, then they would never walk away from that man.
Just like we understand the price that Jesus paid for us & the sacrifice he made for us to have an opportunity at salvation, is similar to the sacrifice men make for their families to give them the opportunity at happiness. Men create the circumstances for success of their families at their own detriment, this is why Christ commands for men to love their families as Christ loved the church.
& This is why men represent God to their families in their leadership in kind.
& It is only something you can learn from experiencing a man that loves you & that you love in kind.
It is not something your parents can tell you, it’s something you have to understand from romantic interest with a man you love.
This is also why a woman will never reach her full potential if she doesn’t have a man she loves. Because she will never learn what she needs to learn to elevate herself to the next level.
This is also why people who serve God get the highest attainment & get farther than people who serve the devil. Because you need to learn through genuine love, connection & interest. If a woman is trying to manipulate a man to get what she wants then she will be cheating herself in the process to get what she wants because she will never learn what she needs to from that man in order to reach her full potential.
Desire for that man gives motive to hang off of every word he says.
& Today is the first time I’ve ever understood this fact/dynamic in full.”
& I think it speaks for itself…